Creating your own online server is beyond the scope of this guide, as it requires changing your home network's configuration and is not recommended unless you know what you are doing. If you wish to purchase a small private server for friends, check out Minecraft Realms. If you still wish to set up your own private server, here are the instructions – you do so at your own risk, because we can’t offer support for home networks or privately made servers.
How to stay safe on a server
Minecraft’s amazing community is friendly, welcoming, and kind. It’s rare that you’ll encounter problems. But there are a few steps you can take to maximize your safety when playing with others. For more information on the theme of safety, check out our guide “How to stay safe online”.
Never share your personal details. That includes your real name, age, where you live, your password, your contact details, your favorite food, or any other information that a stranger wouldn’t normally know about you.
Only add your friends to your friends list. If you add someone as your friend, they’ll be able to join you whenever you’re playing - and will show up in your invite lists for Realms and online multiplayer. If you don’t know and trust them, don’t add them.
Mute rude people and spammers. If you mute someone, you’ll no longer see any of their messages in game chat or on servers. This is a quick and easy way to deal with someone who’s bothering you.
Block people you don’t want to play with again. Blocking someone means that they can’t contact you at all in Minecraft or through the Xbox Live network. You won’t see their messages in the chat, they can’t join your Realm (even with an invite), and you won’t see any Xbox Live messages or game invites from them.
Report disruptive behavior. Reporting someone sends a message to Minecraft and Xbox Live Enforcement with information about the issue. We take reports very seriously. All our players are expected to adhere to the Xbox Live Code of Conduct. When you report bad behavior you’re helping to create a positive and welcoming experience for all Minecraft players. We also recommend you read more player and server griefing issues in our FAQ.
Turn off multiplayer when you want to play solo. If you have Xbox Live multiplayer permission enabled, your local worlds have multiplayer turned on by default. That means your friends can easily join your world and play too. If you want to play solo, you can turn off multiplayer from the settings menu.
Be kind. The fastest way to get into trouble is to cause trouble yourself. Be friendly and nice to other people, and they’ll most likely be nice to you too.
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